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I am half of this blog and out of the country.
Having life out of my course with friends and the other Z ,
and accounting bits and pieces that I would seldomly oversee in this blog .
Eyes for sense of style, colours and proportion to the slightest inch.
Personally fond of detailing.
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Tuesday 23 February 2010
What are you looking at?
But seriously who are they?
I've been thinking about this matter for a while. Part of it came from my little thoughts but part of it always came from the cheesy cheap glossy gossip which I always get myself updated especially on hillariously laughable Malaysian celebrities. Apparently they always mention "orang di luar sana," "orang sibuk bercakap," but seriously people who are those people? Sometimes when it comes to big names like Siti or Siti (is there any other bigger names than Siti?) probably it would make sense but when it comes to celebrity with reputation of peanut-sized or profile of less than one face of an A4 sheet filled, it is just intriguing. Who the hell actually talk about them? Maybe there is people or orang di luar sana. Oh well. I'm confused.
But my point is we do actually care what other people (whoever they are) think about us. No matter how hard we try to deny the fact that we don't give a damn, or we just don't care but deep down inside we actually care. To be honest, I do care, maybe that's how I'm being brought up, to be able to carry myself properly in a socially acceptable way (again whatever it means).
These concerns undeniably have positive and negative aspects from them. What's positive that I can think of is that those imaginary rules ie rules on how you should behave yourself in a certain crowd, what you should wear, how you should look would make you well; behave. We couldn't deny there's always awkwardness and feeling out of place haunting us all the time but if we behave certain ways probably we can dampen them down.
But negative sides to it, if we excessively pay attention to those what-people-might-think nonsense we could ended up in trouble. We could be highly conscious of ourselves, awkward and constantly giving ourselves a hard time. We could possibly slip to the extreme end, ended up doing everything for other people instead of ourselves. And seriously, these people (whoever they are) could be that powerful.
We are in a world where we carry ourselves according to what other people might think of us. Obvious example is dressing or fashion. I'm saying this because it's related to me as well. Whatever I wear I can't escape from asking myself back again is it okay. Not for me but is it okay for the people out there. I don't even know who they are but I couldn't help to get their nods for whatever I've put on. And I just feel ok since maybe I've been brainwashed that it is a right thing to do. It's true I guess that I read somewhere that we are living in a world where we constantly feel like it's an obligation to please people whom we don't even know or we don't even like. I am not even going to mention about make-ups, expensive designer dresses, shoes, jewellery, designer bags, or what other "tools" to please the people.
Probably I am one of those "people" without realising it. So I guess it's just like a circle. You think of that about some other people, maybe some people over there are making up something about you.
But sometimes, when it gets too overwhelming, and you feel like people are staring, not looking, I guess it's probably right to do this
You wanna piece of me?
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